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Custom Pendants: Buying Guide for 2023

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Of all the types of jewelry that you can wear, some argue that custom made pendants have the most potential to embody meaningful sentiments expressed in beautiful detail. This is true because, when pendants are suspended from a necklace, everyone can easily see the design, especially if you choose to make your pendant large.

There are so many motifs for you to draw inspiration from.  First, you can opt for a bold look. As long as you have a strong chain, pendants can be big and heavy, so you are not limited by size or weight considerations. If you like, your custom pendant can literally cover your entire chest with tons of metal, enamel, and gemstones.  Alternatively, you can design something medium-sized which is professional and can be worn all the time. Finally, pendants can be tiny and discrete yet symbolize something very powerful to their wearer. This gives you and your designer a huge canvas to play with. Nothing is off-limits.

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The double infinity design of this pendant clearly references an eternal bond of love between multiple people. You can commission a pendant like this in any size. Photo by CustomMade. Used with permission.
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Your neck and upper chest are visible to others, so your custom pendant can not only embody a message that is important to you, but it can communicate that idea to others. Pendants can include the name of a loved one, a phrase, a significant symbol, an image, or gemstones you feel an affinity towards. Lockets are a subcategory of pendants that hold treasures such as small pictures or locks of hair. Fortunately, when pendants of any kind are suspended from necklaces, they are at very low risk of damage from impacts or abrasions. This means that you can use any gemstone you like, even the softest ones.

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This pendant pairs diamonds (the hardest gemstone) with turquoise and opals, two notoriously soft gems. Fortunately, the person who designed this pendant won't have to worry about the gems being damaged while they wear their necklace, just be sure to remove it when bathing. Photo by CustomMade. Used with permission.
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So, what is a pendant exactly? The literal meaning of the term is a decorative item that is threaded onto a chain. Some pendants have a loop feature connected to them called a "bail" through which the chain passes through. Bails may or may not be visible from the front. Some pendants don't have a bail, rather they have an opening that passes directly through their body. These pendants are called "slides". Some bails or gaps are too narrow to fit over the clasp of their chain, so you have to wear the pendant with the chain it came with. Others are wide enough to be slipped over the clasp of one chain and put on another. Such pendants can be transferred to necklaces of different lengths so you can pair them with any neckline.

According to the literal definition, pendants are not affixed to a chain. Rather, they can move back and forth, hanging at the lowest point regardless of where the clasp sits. However, many designers use the term to describe any decorative feature on a chain, whether it moves freely or is securely affixed to the chain.

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Some would argue that the name piece on this chain is not a true pendant because it is permanently attached to specific links on its' chain. However, some jewelers will use the term "pendant" anyway. Photo by CustomMade. Used with permission.
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As the definition only says that pendants hang from a chain, necklaces are not the only type of jewelry that can have them. Bracelets, anklets, and even body chains can have pendants strung on them. Additionally, you can work with your designer to create a pendant that can be converted to a brooch by attaching a pin to the backside of the piece. This greatly increases the versatility of the piece so you can wear it more often.

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You can wear this delicate gold shell pendant on a chain anywhere on your body. Photo by CustomMade. Used with permission.
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Pendants strung on necklaces have been worn by humans for many millennia. Because they sit on your chest above your heart and face the world in front of you, many past cultures used them as protective amulets or talismans. Individuals from cultures all over the world from ancient Egypt to the Aztecs all wore pendants that they believed would keep them safe and bestow upon them gifts such as increased ingenuity, perception, strength, and virility.

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Some believe that astrological zodiac signs influence both an individual's personality and their compatibility with others. Wearing a pendant with your zodiac sign communicates not only your sign but also your belief that it is important. Photo by CustomMade. Used with permission.
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Another historically meaningful form that pendants can take is the ancient medallion design. The ancient Greeks and Romans wore gold coins around their necks as pendants to demonstrate their wealth. This habit carried through the ages and, as a result, the circular medallion disk design still exists to this day. You can truly put anything on the surface of a custom medallion. You might have a short prayer or phrase engraved on it, including a religious image, design an abstract pattern with inlaid gemstones, or play with the texture of the metal.

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This starburst pattern is an ancient motif. Sometimes it references a compass, an indispensable navigation tool that enabled trade across land and sea. Other times, it was associated with the romantic light of the stars. It remains a popular motif for medallion pendants. Photo by CustomMade. Used with permission.
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Although the inspiration to wear pendants is thousands of years old, it is easy to modernize the look. Abstract geometric forms are always a great way to inject fresh sensibility into any jewelry item. Beautiful lines paired with bold gemstones are a classic look that is always in style. Also, as you commission a custom pendant for yourself, you might consider working with your designer to create an identical or similar pendant for a friend, family member, or loved one. Some people actually prefer to wear a pendant engraved with a word like "taken" or "husband" in place of a traditional engagement or wedding ring.

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This clean design is, at the same time, both timeless and effortlessly modern. Photo by CustomMade. Used with permission.
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Finally, you put a lot of thought into your custom pendant design, so don't forget about the chain it is paired with.  If your pendant is small, light, and will only be worn on special occasions, you may want to pair it with something that is equally delicate. Conversely, if your pendant is medium or large in size, it can be heavy and create friction as it moves across its chain, especially if you wear it regularly. In this instance, it is important to choose an appropriate chain that is strong enough not to break. Generally, it is a good idea to select a chain that is made of durable links such as a cable or rolo pattern. These chains have large enough links that they won't easily be bent or kinked and also have enough metal to make them strong enough to be worn regularly. If your custom pendant is particularly flashy, designing the accompanying chain may be as vital to the overall look of the piece as the pendant itself.

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This delicate rolo chain will hold up over time while still being refined enough to be paired with a delicate floral-themed pendant. Photo by CustomMade. Used with permission.
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Emily Frontiere

Emily Frontiere is a GIA Graduate Gemologist. She is particularly experienced working with estate/antique jewelry.

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